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女性的理想

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女性理想

(《布鲁克林标准联合报》,一八九五年一月二十一日)

斯瓦米·辨喜由伦理协会主席詹斯博士向听众介绍后,部分发言如下:

"任何民族贫民窟的产物,都不能成为我们评判那个民族的标准。人们可以在世界上每一棵苹果树下,将那些腐烂、被虫蛀蚀的苹果收集起来,并为每一颗撰写一本书,却对苹果树的美丽与潜力仍一无所知。评判一个民族,只能以其最高最优者为准——那些堕落者自成另一族类。因此,以理想来评判一种习俗,不仅恰当,而且公正合理。

"女性理想的核心在于印度的雅利安种族,这是世界历史上最古老的民族之一。在那个民族之中,男性与女性都是祭司,吠陀称其为'同法侣伴',即宗教上的共同修行者。那里每个家庭都有自己的圣坛或祭台,婚礼之时在其上点燃婚火,这火一直燃烧直至夫妻任何一方去世,届时葬柴便从这婚火中取燃。丈夫与妻子在此共同献祭,这一理念被推行至如此程度,以致一个男人甚至无法独自祈祷,因为人们认为他不过是一个不完整的存在,正因如此,未婚男性无法成为祭司。同样的观念也存在于古罗马与古希腊。

"然而,随着一个独立祭司阶层的出现,女性在所有这些民族中的共同祭司地位逐渐退却。首先是亚述民族——闪族血统——宣扬了女孩没有声音、没有权利,甚至在婚后也如此的教义。波斯人深受这一巴比伦观念的影响,并由他们将其传至罗马和希腊,于是妇女处处沦于堕落。

"另一个导致此结果的因素是婚姻制度的变化。最早的制度是母系制,即以母亲为中心,女孩继承其地位的制度。这导致了一种奇特的多夫制,五六个兄弟共娶一名妻子的情形屡见不鲜。即便是吠陀中也留有其痕迹:规定当一个男人死去而未留下子嗣时,他的遗孀可与另一男子共居,直至她成为母亲;但她所生的孩子并不属于生父,而属于她死去的丈夫。后来,遗孀被允许再婚,而现代观念则禁止她这样做。

"然而,与这些糟粕并存的是,民族中兴起了一种极为强烈的个人纯洁观念。吠陀的每一页都在宣扬个人的纯洁。在这方面的律法极为严苛。每个男孩和女孩都被送往大学,在那里学习直至二十岁或三十岁;在那里,哪怕最轻微的不纯行为都会受到近乎严酷的惩罚。这种个人纯洁的理念已深深烙印于这个民族的心灵深处,几乎达到了一种偏执的程度。其中最令人瞩目的例子,可见于奇托[Chitor]被伊斯兰教徒攻占之事。男人们以悬殊的劣势守卫着城池;当女人们看到失败已不可避免,她们在市集广场燃起了一堆熊熊大火,当敌人攻破城门时,七万四千五百名妇女跳上巨大的火葬柴堆,在烈焰中殉死。这一高尚的先例一直流传至今,以至于印度每一封信上都印有"七四五○○"的字样,意即任何非法阅读此信之人,都将担负一种与驱使那些奇托高贵妇女赴死的罪行相类似的罪孽。

"下一个时期是僧侣时代,随着佛教的兴起而来临,佛教教导说,唯有僧侣才能达到涅槃,类似于基督教的天堂。其结果是整个印度成了一座巨大的寺院;只有一个目标,一场战役——保持纯洁。所有的责咎都归到了女性身上,连谚语都告诫人们提防女性。"地狱之门是什么?"是其中之一,答案是:"女人。"另一句说:"是什么将我们都束缚于尘世?女人。"还有一句:"谁是盲中之盲?那受女人欺骗之人。"

"同样的观念也可见于西方的修道院之中。一切修道主义的发展,始终意味着女性的堕落。

"但最终,另一种女性理想出现了。在西方,理想落于妻子;在印度,则落于母亲。但不要以为祭司们对这一转变要负完全责任。我知道他们总是宣称对世间万事负责,尽管我本人也是一位祭司。我愿向每一宗教、每一地域的每一位先知屈膝顶礼;但坦诚迫使我说,在西方,女性地位的提升是由约翰·斯图尔特·穆勒这样的人以及法国革命哲学家们推动的。宗教无疑有所贡献,但并非一切。何况,在小亚细亚,基督教主教至今仍保有后宫!

"基督教的理想体现于盎格鲁-撒克逊民族之中。伊斯兰教女性与她们的西方姐妹相比,在社会与智识发展上确有不及。但不要因此认为伊斯兰教女性是不幸的,事实并非如此。在印度,女性享有财产权已有数千年之久。在这里,一个男人可以剥夺妻子的继承权;而在印度,亡夫的全部遗产必须归于遗孀,个人财产归其完全所有,不动产则归其终身享用。

"在印度,母亲是家庭的中心,是我们最崇高的理想。她对于我们是上帝的代表,就如上帝是宇宙的母亲一样。第一位发现上帝合一性的,是一位女性圣贤,她在吠陀最早的一首赞歌中阐述了这一教义。我们的上帝既是人格性的,也是绝对性的——绝对者为男性,人格者为女性。由此而来,我们如今说道:"上帝最初的显现,是那摇动摇篮的手。"那是通过祈祷而生的,才是雅利安人;那是通过情欲而生的,则是非雅利安人。

"这种胎教影响的学说,如今正在被缓慢地承认,科学与宗教都在呼吁:'保持自身的神圣与纯洁。'印度对此的认识是如此深刻,以至于我们在那里甚至讲婚内通奸,除非婚姻是在祈祷中缔结的。我,以及每一位虔诚的印度教徒,都相信我的母亲是纯洁圣洁的,因此我将自己的一切归功于她。这就是这个民族的秘密——贞洁。"

English

IDEALS OF WOMANHOOD

(Brooklyn Standard Union, January 21, 1895)

Swami Vivekananda, after being presented to the audience by Dr. Janes, president of the Ethical Association, said in part:

"The product of the slums of any nation cannot be the criterion of our judgment of that nation. One may collect the rotten, worm-eaten apples under every apple tree in the world, and write a book about each of them, and still know nothing of the beauty and possibilities of the apple tree. Only in the highest and best can we judge a nation — the fallen are a race by themselves. Thus it is not only proper, but just and right, to judge a custom by its best, by its ideal.

"The ideal of womanhood centres in the Arian race of India, the most ancient in the worlds history. In that race, men and women were priests, 'sabatimini [saha-dharmini],' or co-religionists, as the Vedas call them. There every family had its hearth or altar, on which, at the time of the wedding, the marriage fire was kindled, which was kept alive, until either spouse died, when the funeral pile was lighted from its spark. There man and wife together offered their sacrifices, and this idea was carried so far that a man could not even pray alone, because it was held that he was only half a being, for that reason no unmarried man could become a priest. The same held true in ancient Rome and Greece.

"But with the advent of a distinct and separate priest-class, the co-priesthood of the woman in all these nations steps back. First it was the Assyrian race, coming of semitic blood, which proclaimed the doctrine that girls have no voice, and no right, even when married. The Persians drank deep of this Babylonian idea, and by them it was carried to Rome and to Greece, and everywhere woman degenerated.

"Another cause was instrumental in bringing this about — the change in the system of marriage. The earliest system was a matriarchal one; that is, one in which the mother was the centre, and in which the girls acceded to her station. This led to the curious system of the Polianders [polyandrous], where five and six brothers often married one wife. Even the Vedas contain a trace of it in the provision, that when a man died without leaving any children, his widow was permitted to live with another man, until she became a mother; but the children she bore did not belong to their father, but to her dead husband. In later years the widow was allowed to marry again, which the modern idea forbids her to do.

"But side by side with these excrescences a very intense idea of personal purity sprang up in the nation. On every page the Vedas preach personal purity. The laws in this respect were extremely strict. Every boy and girl was sent to the university, where they studied until their twentieth or thirtieth year; there the least impurity was punished almost cruelly. This idea of personal purity has imprinted itself deeply into the very heart of the race, amounting almost to a mania. The most conspicuous example of it is to be found in the capture of Chito [Chitor] by the Mohammedans. The men defended the town against tremendous odds; and when the women saw that defeat was inevitable they lit a monstrous fire on the market place, and when the enemy broke down the gates 74,500 women jumped on the huge funeral pile and perished in the flames. This noble example has been handed down in India to the present time, when every letter bears the words '74,500,' which means that any one who unlawfully reads the letter, thereby becomes guilty of a crime similar to the one which drove those noble women of Chito to their death.

"The next period is that of the monks; it came with the advent of Buddhism, which taught that only the monks could reach the 'nirvana', something similar to the Christian heaven. The result was that all India became one huge monastery; there was but one object, one battle — to remain pure. All the blame was cast onto women, and even the proverbs warned against them. 'What is the gate to hell?' was one of them, to which the answer was: 'Woman'. Another read: 'What is the chain which binds us all to dust? Woman'. Another one: 'Who is the blindest of the blind? He who is deceived by woman.'

"The same idea is to be found in the cloisters of the West. The development of all monasticism always meant the degeneration of women.

"But eventually another idea of womanhood arose. In the West it found its ideal in the wife, in India in the mother. But do not think that the priests were altogeher responsible for this change. I know they always lay claim to everything in the world and I say this, although I am myself a priest. I'll bend my knees to every prophet in every religion and clime, but candor compels me to say, that here in the West the development of women was brought about by men like John Stuart Mill and the revolutionary French philosophers. Religion has done something, no doubt, but not all. Why, in Asia Minor, Christian bishops to this day keep a harem!

"The Christian ideal is that which is found in the Anglo-Saxon race. The Mohammedan woman differs vastly from her western sisters in so far as her social and intellectual development is not so pronounced. But do not, on that account, think that the Mohammedan woman is unhappy, because it is not so. In India woman has enjoyed property rights since thousands of years. Here a man may disinherit his wife, in India the whole estate of the deceased husband must go to the wife, personal property absolutely, real property for life.

"In India the mother is the centre of the family and our highest ideal, She is to us the representative of God, as God is the mother of the Universe. It was a female sage who first found the unity of God, and laid down this doctrine in one of the first hymns of the Vedas. Our God is both personal and absolute, the absolute is male, the personal, female. And thus it comes that we now say: 'The first manifestation of God is the hand that rocks the cradle.' He is of the 'arian' race, who is born through prayer, and he is a nonarian, who is born through sensuality.

"This doctrine of prenatal influence is now slowly being recognized, and science as well as religion calls out: 'Keep yourself holy, and pure.' So deeply has this been recognized in India, that there we even speak of adultery in marriage, except when marriage is consummated in prayer. And I and every good Hindoo believe, that my mother was pure and holy, and hence I owe her everything that I am. That is the secret of the race — chastity."


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